• Dancing with the Feminine Weekend Intensive

    The Art of Sex from Your Vagina's Perspective

    August 16 - 18, 2019

    Denver, CO

  • What is Dancing with the Feminine?

    We are in a renaissance for female sexuality, anatomy, and pleasure, yet there is still relatively little knowledge

    nor common expression for our sexual practice when it comes the female counterpart to penetration.

    Allow Dr. Hazel-Grace Yates and Aaron Michael, author of Optimal Sex Life, to guide you through a 3-day metamorphosis for your partnered sexual practices in preparation for the art of vaginal swallowing and penetration.


    Our 3-day weekend together will invite the power of sisterhood to support our sexual rooting and creative freedom necessary for the potent, alchemical reaction when synchronizing the forces of vaginal penetration and swallowing.


    You will learn to assume orgasmic responsibility, how to guide your partner with your pleasure, and the new model

    for sexual intercourse where the pleasure of vaginal swallowing and penetration complement one another.


    This highly experiential weekend will support flourishing our feminine fire in relation to a dildo-, finger- or penis-possessing partner, while maintaining deep connection to our embodied power, pleasure, and wisdom.

    During our journey together, we will dive deeply into...


    • Non-Verbal Consent and embodied desire
    • Becoming an active participant in receiving pleasure
    • Genital Re-Sensitization (De-Armoring to Awaken your Sacred Spot, Amrita, Cervical, Anal and Whole Yoniverse)
    • An experiential understanding of the anatomy and energetics of sex
    • Explore the art of penetration and consumption with sisters
    • Expanding our capacity for pleasure in the act of love making


  • Meet the Team

    Dr. Hazel-Grace Yates

    Lead Facilitator

    Hazel-Grace has a doctorate in Human Sexuality and is a Somatic Sex Educator, Trauma Informed Practitioner, and a Sex and Relationship Coach. Her purpose is to end global toxic sexual shame and exalt pleasure.

    Aaron Michael

    Lead Facilitator

    Aaron Michael teaches women and couples how to optimize their sex life for pleasure and intimacy. He is passionate about providing adults an avant-garde sex education beyond talk therapy and anatomy drawings. When he is not making video courses or giving personal sessions he enjoys re-searching new material. He is the author and founder of Optimal Sex Life. www.optimalsexlife.com

    Mika Earthspirit

    Lead Facilitator

    Mika Earthspirit is a leader of Authentic Relating Games in Dallas, teaches contact Improv and works with compassionate communication in the public arena. She also advocates and leads body positive, naked positive and sex positive events. She has a passion for bridging and building communities and strongly participates in Dallas, Austin and Houston conscious communities.

  • More Details

    Weekend Dates 

    August 16th, 4:00pm - 9:00pm

    August 17th, 10:00am - 6:00pm

    August 18th, 10:00am - 6:00pm



    This weekend will be held at a private residence in Denver.



    Participants will provide their own meals.


    Weekend Intensive Tuition

    Early Bird by August 1st: $450
    Payment Plan - 3 payments of $160
    After August 1st: $550
    Payment Plan - 3 payments of $190

  • What Participants have said about...

    Aaron Michael

    "Aaron takes so much knowledge and makes it come together in a way that seems easy and understandable for even newcomers to grasp."

    - Gry Dagmar Møberg, Tantric Bodyworker, Shamanistic Therapist, and Leadership Mentor​

    Dr. Hazel Grace Yates

    “(Hazel-Grace) set up a very safe space for erotic exploration. If you've always wanted to try something like this, but have been afraid to do so, this is your ticket!”

    - Workshop Participant

    "He’s highly skilled, respective, conscious, and his hands are absolutely magic.”

    - Sanna Sanita, Sweden’s leading Sacred Sexuality & Conscious Teacher​

    "I don't think I've fully realized how much I learned about myself this weekend. One thing I know for sure is that I have been awakened. I made connections with females that I never thought possible, but most importantly I made connections with myself that I never thought was possible. I will forever be grateful for you both for creating such a powerful experience for me and everyone else."

    - Workshop Participant

    "His touch gave me a compass that has set me off on a path to more tangible teaching and giving others this experience. I’m still passing it on.”

    - Signe Bentzen, Author, Tantric Sexologist and Couples Counselor

    "(Hazel-Grace) is absolutely amazing. I've been to a few of her workshops and they have been, without a doubt, the best I've ever been to. Hazel-Grace effortlessly fluctuates between the roles of facilitator, witness, and caregiver, depending on the energy and need for each. The safe containers she creates are the ideal place for enlightenment, discovery, and healing. I feel so good after her experiences and can never wait for the next one. If you are ready to go deep with yourself and others, let Hazel-Grace lead the way."

    - Workshop Participant

    "The sensations and emotions that ran through me this weekend were unbelievable and unknown to me. If I could use one word to sum them up is “connectivity.” I felt connected to myself, to you all, and to the ground we were all standing on. Something sparked this opening deep inside and I went in overdrive in absorbing everything. I’ve never felt this focused and mesmerized by the stories and experiences shared this weekend. This weekend gave me this spark of courage in actually starting on this journey called “MY life," not what others think what life should look like but what I want and desire."

    - Workshop Participant

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